Question of the day.

Hey people! πŸ™‚

If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

My answer:

It’s really hard to say, I don’t think there’s one thing in me that if I had fixed, life would be much different. I could say my personality because there are a lot of things in my personality that are difficult for me to deal with daily but then on the other hand I would not like my whole personality to change because first, that would be such an awfully huge, scary and awkward change and second, there are things that I do like about my personality and ones that I simply have gotten used to perceive as parts of me and would feel weird if it would suddenly be otherwise, and also the difficult things have their upsides as they usually do in life. I think it would be useful and way easier though if I were less of a ruminator.

You? πŸ™‚

Question of the day.

How strict were/are your parents?

My answer:

I have asked you this question last year and answered it, but I just thought as I always do in such cases that I’d post it anyway for the sake of those who are new to my blog or haven’t seen that question and woould like to answer it. So I’ll just go the easy way and copy/paste my response from back then.

My parents were definitely flexible! My Dad likes to think about himself as a very strict parent, but he is only very strict with Olek, with whom he doesn’t have the best relationship so that strictness seems to come more from the place of anger and the need to control than care. As weird as it feels to admit sometimes, for me, and I think for Zofijka too, he doesn’t really have much authority. He likes to tell all of us what we have to do in his view but we never care, sometimes we’ll do it for the peace of mind. My Mum is much more of a role model and an authoritative person for me, even though she was a big softy in raising all of us and with a bit of a tendency to be overprotective. Still, she has her rules, and they were always clear to us, and sometimes she can be pretty strict, but not over the top, just for the sake of being strict and tough, but rather for the sake of being possibly fair. She’s always been most flexible with me, using the excuse that I am the most disciplined of all of us, although I don’t think of myself as a very disciplined person and I am not even sure I would like to be one, it certainly makes life easier but also awfully boring, so I think what saves me is that I have some common sense after her, rather than am somehow very disciplined or dutiful or something like that. What was/has been your experience? πŸ™‚

Question of the day (27th March).

Tell me 3 best things about you.

My answer:

Most people say I’m a good listener and loads of people ask me for advice, even on things I have no clue about which is both very honouring and embarrassing. πŸ˜€ And sometimes it’s funny.

I am quite intelligent and obviously it is very useful in life.

I have extremely vivid imagination and there aren’t many things I completely cannot imagine, like in any way at all.

You? πŸ™‚

Question of the day.

Finish this sentence – “I am currently one step away from…”.

My answer:

…Getting my new Swedish speech synthesisers. As you may remember from some of my previous posts, I’ve been struggling a lot with regaining some of my speech synthesisers after changing computers, and some seem impossible for me to have on this new one, for example my great Swedish speech synthesiser which is no longer produced and the activation key doesn’t work. Instead, I decided to buy Swedish voices from a different company, from whom I already do have a licence for a lot of synths, but to have Swedish one, you have to upgrade to Scandinavian licence. I did that, and I’ve already even received a file that is supposed to activate the thing, and it all seemed to be very easy, but all those boring techy things seem to hardly be as easy as they seem, haha. I got this file, and I was instructed to plug the USB key on which I’ve got my global (not upgraded) licence to begin with, with all the voices, additional programmes and stuff, and I had to find a file with the same extension as the one I got, change the extension in that old file, and then paste the new file in there as well. It would be cool if I could find a file with such an extension on that USB key at all though. I could not. It is a hidden file, but I have enabled the option for showing hidden files on my computer, but I cannot see it anyway. So maybe I could paste that new file anyway, but I don’t know the way those files are working, and I’m quite apprehensive of experimenting and possibly messing up with such relatively pricey stuff. So I asked the company through which I bought the upgrade what I should do and if they could help in any way. They said they would pass it to someone in their company who is knowledgeable in the topic and he will get back to me. I haven’t heard back from him, but I am hopeful that he will get back to me soon and that there aren’t any more steps in the unknown to make for me to obtain those synths.

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Question of the day (21st March).

When was the last time it was your fault?

My answer:

Today morning. I was feeding Misha who had just come in to visit me, and I really wanted to show him how I’ve made his bed even more comfy and get his feedback. I picked him up quickly just when I noticed that he emptied his bowl, and wanted to show him his comfy bed, but as soon as I picked him up he started to choke. I am still not perfectly sure what’s the reason but that happens to Misha a lot. Mum says that Misha might have something wrong with his throat/larynx because he also purrs very very ultra-quietly all the time, even his loudest purrs are almost only palpable rather than audible, but I think it is because of the way he eats, he tends to eat very quickly and kind of anxiously, as if he was scared that someone is going to take his food away before he can eat it or that he must run away very quickly because someone is lurking and waiting to swallow him whole or I don’t know what he thinks, but that’s how it looks. A while ago, he was eating in the kitchen and Mum was sitting there too, and then she sneezed, and Misha ran away instantly, knocking his bowl over. His brain is in alarm mode most of the time as it seems. Nothing serious has ever happened because of that choking, but it is often and always freaks me out as I am a very overprotective mummy. But today it was definitely not the problem with Misha’s larynx or anxiety, because I picked him up too quickly and he didn’t manage to swallow the rest of his food, and I didn’t know that he was still eating. Additionally I think that must have also startled him, and hence the drama. It wasn’t very bad but it was really scary for me especially that I was home alone, the only other human being in the house was Olek who was sleeping, and my practical idea about veterinary first aid is incredibly poor so I couldn’t be very helpful in case he coked really badly, but we managed and it was okay.

You? πŸ™‚

Question of the day (20th March).

Let’s say the pandemic is over, or that it is not going to do any harm to anyone, and you’re coming to mine for dinner and I ask you to bring dessert, what do you bring?

My answer:

If I were to come to any of you, I think I would bring a proper Polish yeast cake. Either with apples, or plums, or raspberries, or walnuts, or whatever we’d want in it. If I had to decide on something less laborious and easier to make I think it would be chocolate muffins.

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