Question of the day (17th August).

What should every person do at least once?

My answer:

I’d say learn a language, or at least try to and experience what it feels like. I think it’s a very enriching and interesting experience and it makes me feel sad that a lot of people miss out on it entirely, without even knowing whether they’d like it or not, either because they don’t have any real motivation for it or because they think they don’t have a “talent” for it, whatever that elusive talent thing may be. Also the brain benefits long-term are a huge advantage in my opinion. Not to mention that it can open various doors for you, like to an entirely different culture and mentality, help you meet some interesting people. Most of all though, the reason why I think everyone should try it is that every language you know gives you a different perspective on things, a slightly, or perhaps sometimes not so slightly, I guess depending how different from each other your languages are, way of thinking, since language plays a huge role in how we think about or perceive different things. I’d even go as far as to say that with each language you acquire, be it in early childhood or later on, a different layer or aspect is added to your personality in a way, that is absolutely congruent with the rest of your personality and doesn’t create any conflict or anything, because your languages exist peacefully beside each other and complement each other rather than compete in your brain or exist in some separate, distinct realms, but speaking and/or thinking in more than one language simply makes you more multi-dimensional or something like that, and it lets you think more flexibly and in more ways.

Only there’s a problem, because at the same time I firmly believe that you have to actually, truly like your target language to do it and be successful at it and experience all the benefits of language-learning. If you don’t like it, there’s no point whatsoever. You’re neither going to be good at it (unless you seriously have some brain superpowers or are extremely disciplined and strong-willed) nor are you going to experience anything good from such learning. So while in theory I think we would all benefit from it, I think in practice one would first have to find a language that one finds really appealing and has some true motivation for learning it, because otherwise it just won’t work. I feel so much for all the kids who have to learn a foreign language they don’t like at school, like Sofi says she really doesn’t like English, although with her I’m not sure whether she seriously doesn’t get along with English as a language, or started to dislike it due to school and being unsuccessful at it. I – and it’s not just me –
always say that there’s no such thing as a language talent, unless you’re talking stuff like learning a native accent, but I think for most people who are accused of not having a talent or say so about themselves, the real problem is that they don’t really have much love for the language they’re learning, so it’s hardly surprising they’re not making much progress at it, or if they do, it feels painful and/or slow. Since I like learning languages people usually consider me very talented, but when I was learning German at school, which is a language I merely like and not love the way I do all “my” languages, I was very mediocre at it. Or when my Mum once had a dream to learn Italian (which, like all Romance languages, doesn’t really appeal to me very much in terms of sound and also I guess too many people like it for it to be truly loveable for me), and asked me to help her somehow, I tried to learn the basics, thinking just like my Mum that I’m apparently so good at languages so it’ll be no problem for me to learn and teach her the very basic stuff, except the grammar didn’t really make much sense to me and it all felt extremely arduous so I gave up after like two weeks. πŸ˜€ I feel for people who have to learn a language for work-related purposes but don’t have more of a relationship with it so it only feels stressful and forced and no fun at all. I guess it must be like being forced into an arranged marriage as opposed to being with someone you actually love, or making friends with someone solely because you’re colleagues and it’s useful rather than because you have anything in common and you want it. But there are so many languages in the world that I think if we all just looked around, or rather listened intently, most of us could find at least one language that we’d really fall in love with.

What’s such a thing in your opinion? πŸ™‚

10 thoughts on “Question of the day (17th August).”

  1. I loved your writing so much it made me forget your question! I only remember they stuck me in French class in school and I hated the way I sounded with my thick New England accent. I was so self conscious. Back to the point. I would say to anyone who is able and not tied to responsibilities is to just pack it up and go somewhere. Travel. Make a new life for yourself. You can always come back.

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    1. I’m glad to hear you enjoy my writing! πŸ™‚
      I think self-consciousness about accent or making mistakes is a very common thing that either discourages people from learning a language or blocks them from speaking it even if they can and that is kind of sad but also understandable. I think it’s a real thing that some people may find it easier to learn the accent of one language but not so much another, and it’s not only based on their native language but I think also some other things come into play.
      This kind of travelling, leaving everything behind and just exploring the world, is my Dad’s biggest dream.

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    2. :O That’s really nasty! I myself have never come across any deliberately mean comments or behaviour from natives of any of my target languages that would have to do with my ability or inability to speak it well, I think usually people are appreciative when you learn their language even a little bit and make an effort to communicate with them, and usually they won’t even correct your mistakes unless you ask or something, so I’m sorry you came across jerks like that.

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  2. My schoolteachers agreed with you, because I was taught Spanish from third grade through tenth or eleventh grade. It was enriching for sure and a good way to learn other habits of pronunciation and spelling patterns, etc.

    Something everyone should do at least once? Hmm… I’d say go swimming!! No one wants to feel afraid like they’d drown, or whatever, if they were to fall into water. Swimming is a great sport and form of exercise, whether in a pool or at the beach or in a lake. Now that I think of it, everyone should also go to the beach at least once. It’s just a great thing to experience, and we should all experience it!! What fun!!

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    1. Oh sure, swimming is such a valuable ability to have! And I agree so much about the beach. I live pretty close to the sea so as a kid it was unthinkable and unbelievable for me whenever someone told me that they’d never been to the beach or in the sea, it’s really a great thing.

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